Exploring AsianSingles.Me: Can You Really Meet Local Asian Singles?
How do I feel about Asian singles? Honestly, I find myself admiring them everywhere—at the grocery store, in coffee shops, or even on my laptop screen. But I’ve also learned the hard way that unsolicited public arousal isn’t appreciated. There has to be a better way to meet women than flashing my junk at the sushi bar!
Luckily, there are easier ways to find hookups, dates, friends with benefits, or even long-term partners. Welcome to the 21st century—most of you have probably already tried online dating. AsianSingles.me, as the name suggests, is an adult dating site for meeting unattached Asians. As much as I enjoy the adult entertainment world, I’m always curious to explore other “pies.” Let’s see what this site has to offer.
AsianSingles.me: What’s the Scene Like?
The domain for AsianSingles.me was registered a few years ago, so this might be a good time to review it. Newer sites can be ghost towns, while older platforms usually either thrive or fade away. Sites like AdultFriendFinder or Match have found their niche—what about this one?
Traffic numbers are mixed. In January, the site saw close to 35,000 visitors, but by March, it dropped to just over 5,000. Five thousand might sound decent if the site served one city or state, but spread across the entire country, it’s a thin pool.
Like many adult dating sites, the homepage is minimalist. A sexy, non-explicit background sets it apart from wholesome stock photo sites. The blurbs immediately mention sex, promising users a chance to “experience sexual desires and fantasies”—an oddly phrased claim since fantasies don’t need a website to exist.
I wish they showed sample users on the tour page, but that’s rare for sites like this. If you want a peek, you’ll need to create an account.
Signing Up: Quick and Easy
I’m not shy, so I signed up. If you’ve used sex dating sites before, this will feel familiar. The front page asks for basic info: who you are, who you’re looking for, your age, location, and email. You can add a short bio and a profile pic, though both are optional.
Signup was fast, free, and straightforward. But the real question: how far can you get without paying?
Almost immediately, I got a friend request and a few “Icebreaker” messages—but many were spam disguised as site features, like “FUCK Requests” or “Local Fuck Requests.” Real inbox messages were locked behind a paywall: “Get a Premium Account to read this message!”
The good news? Even without paying, my inbox was full of nudes. Users post tons of naughty selfies, which populate the feed even if you haven’t made any friends yet. It’s a smorgasbord of explicit content, though some links, like supposed live webcams, turned out to be spam.
Where Are the Real Women?
I wasn’t ready to pay just to read messages. A half-dozen messages in five minutes usually signal bots or scams. Searching by location, only the first woman was nearby; most others were scattered across the country. Limiting results to 50 miles returned just three women. For reference, I was in Chicago, where there are plenty of Asian singles—just not on this site.
By now, my inbox was full of repetitive messages from suspected bots. Premium membership costs $30 per month—comparable to other adult sites—but unlike my own work, paying here doesn’t guarantee real hookups.
Given the tiny local userbase and overwhelming spam, the price isn’t worth it—though results might vary in more active regions.
Verdict: Buyer Beware
Signup is free, so it’s worth checking if there are any real singles nearby. But AsianSingles.me faces serious issues: a lack of real women, a spam-heavy interface, and questionable messaging. If you want genuine hookups, it’s better to try other sites on my list of hookup platforms. AsianSingles.me would need a major overhaul to compete. Good luck out there!
